Tuesday, November 25, 2008

The Dollar...

I had a good friend the other day...
speak'n life stuff...
mentioned that you need to NOT be attached to the Dollars you offer...

So as you offer people in your life $1,
it should have NO effect whether they accept it or not...

He said his life changed when he stopped offering things with a emotional attachment...
which was really BUYING not offering...

BUT the biggest idea came when he said...
I DON'T WALK AROUND WITH THE DOLLAR OUT... I don't even think about it... I just have a life... and during regular interactions... It may occur to me that this person seems to be in need of a dollar... oh, and I have one... and then I offer it... very casually with no weight to it... offer it... and then they either take it or not...

No WEIGHT placed on THEM to take it...
No WEIGHT on my side if they accept it...
It's just a dollar that I have...

THIS WAS PROFOUND FOR ME...
I walk around with the DOLLAR OUT A LOT!!!

I am learning to not hoard it but also...
to NOT feel the need to display it...
there will be an appropriate time for me to offer my worth...
and I will decide that...

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